<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Exaaactly]]></title><description><![CDATA[BYOB: bring your own Baccarat]]></description><link>https://exaaactly.com</link><image><url>https://exaaactly.com/img/substack.png</url><title>Exaaactly</title><link>https://exaaactly.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2026 08:57:15 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://exaaactly.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Exaaactly]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[exaaactly@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[exaaactly@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Tom Smith]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Tom Smith]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[exaaactly@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[exaaactly@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Tom Smith]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[Design Isn’t About Money, It’s About Meaning]]></title><description><![CDATA[Crafting Purposeful Experiences Beyond the Price Tag]]></description><link>https://exaaactly.com/p/design-isnt-about-money-its-about</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://exaaactly.com/p/design-isnt-about-money-its-about</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tom Smith]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jan 2025 20:07:00 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let&#8217;s be honest, when you hear the word &#8220;designer,&#8221; your brain probably starts conjuring up images of Gucci loafers, Balenciaga handbags, or (heaven help us) Philipp Plein&#8217;s glittery monstrosities. At some point, &#8220;designer&#8221; became shorthand for &#8220;needlessly expensive&#8221;. It&#8217;s the kind of word that gets attached to objects seemingly designed to drain your wallet rather than improve your life. And yet, we&#8217;re all guilty. Who hasn&#8217;t stared at a wildly overpriced chair and thought, Maybe I do need this? Case in point: I just dropped &#163;500 on a Carl Hansen dining chair. The internal tug of war between desire and reason is the stage upon which modern design battles play out.</p><p>The myth that great design requires a ridiculous price tag is as laughable as it is pervasive. This isn&#8217;t an anti luxury screed, it&#8217;s a plea to rethink what we value. Real design isn&#8217;t about flaunting status. It&#8217;s about solving problems, creating beauty, and improving lives. At its core, design isn&#8217;t about money - it&#8217;s about meaning.</p><h4><strong>Design Democracy: Bauhaus, Eichler, and the People</strong></h4><p>Here&#8217;s the thing about design: it wasn&#8217;t always about exclusivity. Look at Bauhaus. Those students didn&#8217;t set out to create objects for the elite; they aimed to design for everyone. They stripped away the frills (sigh), focusing on clean lines and functional forms. Their mantra was simple: design should serve society. In an ironic twist of fate, it&#8217;s this same philosophy of inclusivity that got them run out of Nazi Germany, but their legacy endured - proof that great design can be inclusive.</p><p>Joseph Eichler carried that torch into mid-century America, building homes that married style with affordability. Open floor plans, post and beam construction, and a seamless indoor outdoor flow - these weren&#8217;t homes for showrooms; they were homes for living.</p><p>From Bauhaus to Eichler, the message was clear: design should enhance life, not exclude people. Scandinavian designers followed suit, blending simplicity, functionality, and beauty. The Egg Chair by Arne Jacobsen? Timeless. Alvar Aalto&#8217;s architecture? Grounded yet transcendent. Even Shaker furniture, born of a religious devotion to simplicity, radiates this ethos.</p><p>Later, Dieter Rams distilled it into his famous &#8220;less but better&#8221; philosophy. His work with Braun - those elegant radios and shavers - was so influential it shaped Apple&#8217;s design DNA. Rams showed that good design didn&#8217;t need to scream luxury; it needed to whisper clarity.</p><h4><strong>The Problem with Pricey Design: Logos Over Logic</strong></h4><p>And yet, somewhere along the line, we lost the plot. These days, expensive doesn&#8217;t mean better, it just means branded. Luxury has become a kind of tax on people too lazy to search for alternatives. Balenciaga&#8217;s IKEA inspired bag or mass produced furniture masquerading as artisanal treasures are proof that branding often trumps logic. These aren&#8217;t design triumphs; they&#8217;re marketing stunts.</p><p>Contrast that with the iPod. Jobs and Ive, channeling Dieter Rams, created something that wasn&#8217;t just beautiful, it was intuitive. You didn&#8217;t buy it to show off, you bought it because it worked - and it worked perfectly. That&#8217;s the kind of design that stays with you. It&#8217;s not about shouting &#8220;look at me&#8221;, it&#8217;s about quietly solving problems and making life better.</p><h4><strong>What Does It Take to Design Well?</strong></h4><p>Good design doesn&#8217;t have to be loud. It doesn&#8217;t have to be expensive. It just has to be <em>good</em>. Dieter Rams nailed it: &#8220;Less but better.&#8221; It&#8217;s about simplicity, functionality, and timelessness. Think Mondaine. Think Muji. Think Japan&#8217;s meticulous practicality, where even a simple teapot becomes a masterpiece of design.</p><p>But design isn&#8217;t just about objects - it&#8217;s about mindset. It&#8217;s about approaching life with thoughtfulness, stripping away the unnecessary, and focusing on what really matters. The best design reflects a life well lived: purposeful, intentional, and enduring.</p><p>And maybe that&#8217;s the ultimate takeaway. Good design isn&#8217;t about flexing wealth, it&#8217;s about creating meaning. It&#8217;s about living well. And isn&#8217;t that worth striving for?</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Cookies and Commitment Issues: Don't Try to Make It Healthy]]></title><description><![CDATA[I'm asking you to do something well.]]></description><link>https://exaaactly.com/p/cookies-and-commitment-issues-dont</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://exaaactly.com/p/cookies-and-commitment-issues-dont</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Tom Smith]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 23 Nov 2024 18:01:33 GMT</pubDate><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In a world where kale is king and quinoa has become as ubiquitous as rice, there's a certain irony in our relentless attempts to 'healthify' foods and sanitise indulgence. </p><p>Picture this: you're eyeing a recipe titled "Guilt-Free, Gluten-Free, Sugar-Free Chocolate Chip Cookies". Spoiler alert&#8212;they're also fun-free. It's as if we've collectively decided that pleasure must come with a side of penance, that every bite of decadence must be counterbalanced with a dash of self-flagellation.</p><p>But what if we abandon this culinary puritanism for just one second? What if we embraced the hedonistic joy of a real cookie&#8212;full fat, full sugar, unapologetically decadent? After all, sometimes the healthiest choice is to drop the half-hearted measures and fully commit to what brings us joy. </p><p>Because let's face it; a cookie that's trying to be a salad ends up failing at both. </p><p>That. That is the tragedy of the modern cookie. Once a symbol of comfort and delight, it's now a battleground for our dietary anxieties. We substitute butter with applesauce, sugar with stevia, chocolate chips with carob morsels (what even is this???)&#8212;which, let's be honest (we assume), taste like petty little drops of regret. The result? A confection as confused about its identity as we are about our desires. </p><p>I recall an afternoon when I ventured into the world of &#8216;healthy baking.&#8217; Armed with buckwheat flour, coconut sugar, and a flaxseed &#8216;egg&#8217;, I was convinced I'd cracked the code to indulgence without consequence. What emerged from the pan lacked any and all semblance of structural integrity&#8212;limp, crumbly, soft, and sad. One bite and I was left contemplating the life choices that led me to this disappointment. It was a lesson learned: sometimes, you have to honour the essence of what you're creating.</p><p>This isn't just about cookies; it's a perfectly baked metaphor for life itself. How often do we dilute our experiences, hedge our bets, and dip our toes when we should be diving in headfirst? Just as a cookie needs real ingredients to be truly satisfying, our endeavours require real commitment to be genuinely rewarding.</p><p>Consider the projects we've started with hesitation, the relationships we've entered with one foot out the door, the opportunities we've approached wrapped in a safety net of doubt. We sprinkle in half measures and wonder why the results leave us unsatisfied. We&#8217;re adding "healthy" substitutions to our lives&#8212;fears and reservations&#8212;that dilute the richness of our experiences.</p><p>There's a hedonistic thrill in diving into something new and giving it your all. It's not recklessness; it's a conscious choice to fully engage with what ignites us. When we allow ourselves to be consumed by the moment&#8212;be it a project, a relationship, or a perfectly baked cookie&#8212;we open ourselves to a depth of satisfaction that's unattainable through cautious nibbling.</p><p>When you commit wholeheartedly, you don't just taste the difference&#8212;you feel it. The flavours are more vibrant, the textures more nuanced, the overall experience more fulfilling. This applies whether you're savouring a dessert or immersing yourself in a passion project.</p><p>When you&#8217;re holding that full fat, fully indulgent cookie, and staring pensively at one of the chocolate drops engraved into its jagged surface, reflecting on what it all means to take a big, satisfying, melty bite, it should be a reminder that some things in life aren&#8217;t meant to be half-eaten or half-lived. They&#8217;re meant to be devoured with gusto, crumbs on your lips, a smile on your face, and not a shred of regret in your heart. Whether it&#8217;s a perfectly baked cookie or a well-chosen endeavour, some things are worth diving into without restraint. </p><p>Don&#8217;t let caution rob you of the chance to experience the fullness of life&#8212;embrace each opportunity wholeheartedly, and you&#8217;ll discover the true sweetness in every bite.</p><p></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://exaaactly.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading Exaaactly! 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